|I don't have any balance in my life; and I'm too busy to find it anyway. This is the No. 1 complaint I hear from people who have concerns about their quality of life.
When considering a vital question like What is a balanced life? the first thing to establish is your position in your life. A well-balanced life means that you are in command of all the aspects of your life—your career, your relationships, your health, and your finances. Your entire personal world. Is this the position you presently occupy in your life?
Many of us feel that everyone around us controls our lives. Trapped by the demands of others and running non-stop, people live as if they are stuck on a treadmill locked on "marathon." The pressure of all this "doing" leads to a lack of life balance that adversely affects you at work and at home.
You can create more balance in your life by working through five simple steps that will break the cycle of lack of control and free you to live a balanced, satisfying life. These practical steps allow you to clearly identify your priorities, set boundaries and delegate, let go of unnecessary activities, and pursue good health. You can also use a "technology intervention" to free yourself from your electronic devices and learn to spend your time and energy wisely on what really matters.
WHAT ARE YOUR PRIORITIES?
First things first: you must decide what is important to you and clearly set your priorities. Figure out what really matters in your life. Honestly assess what you want your priorities to be, not what you, or everyone else, think they should be. Is your job interfering with your personal time? If so, you may want to reassess your priorities at work. The key to a well-balanced life is to understand that true balance comes from both home and work.
REGAINING CONTROL. DO YOU DO EVERYTHING?
Remove yourself from the do-all position. Set boundaries for what you will do and delegate what you will not do. Ask for help and accept it, especially when you are tackling a large task. By clearly communicating how you will allow others to interact with you, you reestablish control in your life. Setting boundaries and delegating often lead to greater satisfaction, productivity, and creativity in your work and personal life.
CLINGING TO UNNECESSARY ACTIVITIES?
Once you have a list of what really matters, cut out any activities or tasks that do not support your priorities. Then adjust your schedule to include only the activities that help you achieve your priorities.
TOO TIRED TOO OFTEN?
Constant exposure to stress can lead to exhaustion and burnout. To minimize the effects of stress on your health, adopt the following plan. Get thirty minutes of sustained daily exercise, eat healthy foods high in antioxidants, drink plenty of water, and make sure that you get seven to nine hours of sleep each night. Focused relaxation, such as meditation or daydreaming, is another great stress reliever and energy booster. Find time for relaxation every day. If you suffer from poor health, this is a clear sign that your life is out of balance.
CHAINED TO YOUR CELL PHONE OR TABLET?
Do a technology intervention! Laptops, cell phones, tablets, and other electronic gadgets have created an "on-call" mentality that can gobble up all your personal time. These hyperaccessible devices keep people tied to work 24/7. If your high-tech tools have turned into a leash that keeps you bound to work, consider these tips to detoxify your life:
Give yourself the opportunity to achieve life balance. Take the first step and discover a simple, practical pathway to a more balanced, happier life.